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OFFICE ROMANCE

Hi everyone,

So there is this gist going around work about a girl I started working with, basically saying she is a cheerful giver and had sex with at least three different guys since we started.
We have only been at the company for six weeks , two of the six weeks we spent training and barely interacting with any of the people on the floor.
The entire floor has been gossiping about it, calling her loose and easy, one of the black girls over heard one of the team leads talking about it and she felt bad, so she told one of the black girls I'm friends with at work about not knowing whether or not to tell her.

I noticed the girl was a bit too close for comfort with some of the guys in the office but I felt I wasn't minding my business, so i just ignored. I'm not close to her so I really cannot say anything to her, I went to uni with her sister but we were not friend and we've only had one or two conversations.

I feel really sorry for her because she has been away and is yet to hear the rumors. The saying "Do not s**t where you eat " applies here because once she hears the rumors she might start feeling uncomfortable.
I pride myself on not having any thing to do with anyone at school or at work because when things start to go sour, one person starts to feel bad and just screws everything up  I had a thing with a staff a few years ago, guy started catching feeling and I wasn't about that life, it just better to avoid the drama.

Have you ever had a relationship or a one night stand with someone at work ?

XXXX
L.D

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