Literal Diva

A friend asked me what my ideal man was , i told her tall , dark , handsome , caring, romantic , funny , intelligent, sexy, 7/8 figure salary , faithful. I ended with he doesn't exist .We all want the Trey Songs , Chris Brown , Lynxx , Chris Attoh Iyanya's of the world , we look at the physical appearance and already we are lusting , who knew Chris would hit Rihanna . Most women want this man , no one wants a short , ugly let me say unattractive or poor man , most people settle for less after pressure from family or been the only one in the clique that is single.  I told my mum i didn't want to get married till was 27 , she looked at me as if i was crazy and jejely rebuked the curse she assumed i placed on my self , then went on to give a speech about how that was to old and no one wants old cargo.I remember sending pictures of guys i found amusing  not in a good way to friends to they could laugh at the way they looked and joke about  how they were stupid to ask me ou...

I would do anything to get my hand on you, what lengths would I go to get you but you are way out of my league. It was love at first sight, I noticed your smooth skin when I walked past and I had to feel you, your smoothness. Dark and beautiful, your creation was perfect and accurate, for weeks I continued to watch you I envied the women that had and held you, but we obsess over our wants, not our needs. I promise not to treat you like they do, i know your worth . I wanted to be the envy of other women who could not get you, flaunting your perfecting everywhere I went, I knew it was meant to be so I came up with a plan . I watched as you left in her arm, followed her into the restaurant and club, I waited for her to go the ladies knowing she would abandon you after a few glasses of wine, and there it was an opportunity only a fool will miss out on. Her friends chatted amongst themselves not acknowledging your presence, walking straight past them I took picked you up, holding you i...

You can never forget the day you met him even though when you did you never thought you would find yourself in this position a year after . You were two different people but when you were together it did not matter for a while. He was an Ibo Christian in his twenties and you are a Yoruba Muslim in your teens, different path of life and upbringing, brought together by a  phone call  one midnight.

Music is something that brings people together , you might see someone you dislike yet you have the same taste in music.Over the years my taste in music is eclectic , I listen to anything that sounds good , however i fell in love with Nigerian artiste Brymo aka Olawale Ashimi , his music varies he gives you a taste of everything . Down is a song from his new album Merchants , Dealers and Slaves , the lyrics talk about corruption from the politicians , religion , and the people of the country and the interactions between them  he sings about what is going on down town , selfishness. If you ever want to take a break from booty shaking music Brymo is the man to listen  to , you will find your self moving your head to the rhythm of the song . You do not have to be Nigerian to listen .   Enjoy !!! Happy Christmas 

I can sit here hiding behind my keyboard telling the few readers how it wrong to have sex on the first date , but honestly who am I to judge as I am guilty as charged on two different occasions . It a personal choice whether or  not to do so . Should you be having sex on the first date ? No However things do not always go as planned , when a guy asks me out on date , in my head i have the opportunity to portray myself as class lady , smooth talks . And hours later  am naked beside a guy I know for only a few weeks or hours . Most women do not admit to sex on the first date as to them it is embarrassing and it them look bad , slutty or what ever you want to call it . I am not saying it is right or trying to make my self feel better for opening my legs , i just feel it is something that happens a lot . I asked a few of my male friends how felt about this , some were indifferent and other felt a lady  should make a man work for what he wants . What is your opinion abou...

Boom!!! The sound of shattered glass and people screaming rang through his ears like music, he looked around and saw nothing but dust, rubble's and broken pieces of cement on the floor, looking around he saw a lady crouched in a position like she was trying to protect something from getting harmed in the explosion, a large rock dropped from d ceiling hitting the lady and causing her to roll over. He noticed a baby covered in blood, the lady had given up her life to shield her baby from harm. He approached the baby, and noticed the baby couldn't be older than six months old, people regain their consciousness began to look for their friends and family in in the remains of the building , the baby soon began to cry but no one paid attention to her ,  he put his hands around her and slowly lifted her up , he noticed blood started to fall onto the  baby’s cloth and it took him a while to realize the blood was his , he had a gash going from his right brow to the tip of his right ear...